and it is NOT my spouse. Marriage Works! (@mrgwrks) tweet, “Ideally, spouses should be in competition against an unhealthy marriage [not one another]” reminded me of the first time my wife and I attended Family Life’s Weekend to Remember conference. At the conference one of the first things the facilitators told us to do was […]
Low Drive, High Drive Dichotomy
As we talked about in Do You Have a High Drive? there is this unseen element at work in every marriage that I call the dichotomy of the high drive and low drive. This dichotomy more than any other thing will put pressure on your marriage. How well you and your spouse handle that pressure […]
Experiences, Mistakes and Lessons
I’ve made mistakes. Who hasn’t? Hopefully, I’ve learned lessons from the mistakes that I’ve made. Those mistakes and lessons are a part of my experience. My experience is just that, my experience. One of the lessons that took me a little longer to learn was that my experience doesn’t equate to everyone’s experience. One of […]