Ever heard this in your marriage? How about felt like that was the attitude of your spouse? It’s damaging to so many marriages. When we marry we marry “for better or worse” with the understanding that we’ll all work for “better.” Too many spouses are worried more about how little they can get by with […]
Low Drive, High Drive Dichotomy
As we talked about in Do You Have a High Drive? there is this unseen element at work in every marriage that I call the dichotomy of the high drive and low drive. This dichotomy more than any other thing will put pressure on your marriage. How well you and your spouse handle that pressure […]
Do You Have a High Drive?
Disclaimer: My wife has never made me lima beans. Thank you, Angel. You may think that the title of this post has to do with sex. Well, it does and it doesn’t. It has to do with preferences and how those preferences impact our marriage relationship. We are all entitled to our preferences. For example, […]